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Disability and Society

By Mo Bahjat

July 6, 2025

Socializing is a fundamental aspect of human life, whether you’re an outgoing individual or someone who cherishes solitude. However, for those with disabilities, the journey to socializing, making friends, and forming relationships can be fraught with challenges. These obstacles are not just physical but also societal, as misconceptions and stigmas often create barriers that are difficult to overcome.


During my college years, I experienced firsthand the complexities of navigating relationships with my disability. I met a beautiful girl, and we quickly became close, sharing lunches and laughter. In my heart, I envisioned a future together, but when I broached the topic of taking our relationship to the next level, her response was heartbreaking. She expressed concerns about the judgment from her family and friends, ultimately deciding that she couldn’t be in a relationship with me. The breakup was painful, but it was a valuable lesson in understanding the societal pressures that people with disabilities often face.


Society has long perpetuated the stereotype that individuals with disabilities are needy, poor, and difficult to manage. This stigma is prevalent in many cultures, and unfortunately, it seems to be intensifying. In today’s world, there is a growing tendency to prioritize wealth and status over genuine human connection. Love, in my view, has lost much of its meaning, as people struggle to find acceptance for who they truly are.


Despite these challenges, it’s important to remember that authenticity and resilience can pave the way for meaningful relationships. By embracing our true selves and seeking out communities that value diversity and inclusivity, we can begin to break down the barriers that society has erected. It’s crucial to advocate for change, challenging the misconceptions that limit our ability to connect with others.


In conclusion, while the path to socializing and forming relationships with a disability may be fraught with obstacles, it is not insurmountable. By fostering self-acceptance, seeking supportive environments, and advocating for change, we can create a world where everyone, regardless of ability, has the opportunity to find love and belonging. Let’s work together to dismantle the stigmas and build a more inclusive society where everyone can be accepted for who they are.

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